For starters this was over a year ago, sorry I’m a procrastinator. So as part of my ongoing midlife crisis I really wanted to give this experience a try, it seemed taboo, dirty and possibly a little bit of dangerous, just what I was looking for to spice up my vanilla life. I’d been lurking on this sub for awhile reading the advice and first time experience’s others have posted hoping to prepare myself and better manage expectations and I felt I was ready. As far as location goes I had a lead on a place that I felt was a good bet, I may have been doing some “research“ on Pornhub for this type of activity and on one video in the comment section (yes I read those on occasion) someone asked where the spot was and it happened to be someplace I pass every day on my way to work. So my office closes early one Friday and I decide this will be the day, I get some cash and head to the spot and sit in my car for a bit trying to convince my self to take some action.

I finally get to the door walk in and as my eyes adjust I look around and everything seems to check out, ATM machine, very dark, locking metal screen door on the way back to the rooms. Almost immediately a 40ish Asia women comes out wearing a very tight very short dress, impractical shoes and a bit too much eye makeup but overall attractive although she had a very serious personality. I ask her if she takes walk-in appointments (because I hate making appointments or reservations for that matter, I prefer a little more spontaneity in life) she just leads me back to a room without saying anything. Once in the room she walk right up to me and asks me what I want using various hand gestures, HJ, BJ and Boom Boom! I opt for the boom boom and we start to negotiate price but I was a little short because I was not expecting FS on my first try. After pulling all my cash out of multiple pockets and dropping it multiple time because I was nervous (two things that make me nervous in life, talking to women and language barriers) she decides to do it for what I had although I don’t think she was happy about it but it seemed like a slow day.

Now the massage was actually good very deep tissue, I was sore for a couple of days after. For the not so great part, when it came time for the other activities I just couldn’t get hard at all, more on that later. She put in a good effort and managed to get enough to snap a condom on then proceeds to give me a BJ until I almost cum. At this point I’m still only 60% hard but she jumps up on the table and manages to ride me until I finish, it didn’t take long. I get dressed and leave going over the experience on my way home not sure how I felt about it. So for the past couple of years I had been having ED issues and shortly after this experience I started going to a mens health clinic because as it turned out my T levels were pretty low, I also got myself a PCP and had a full physical sense I’d never had one before and got a prescription for Viagra so I could be better prepared for the next time, and I did go back about 6 months later and had a much better experience although I did make one questionable choice in the moment that might’ve been ill advised but that will need to be another post.