Maybe I’m weird but… personally I enjoy going to a few different new spots for the thrill and excitement of the buildup, rather than the HJ itself. I can explain further:

I really get off on the clothed female naked male CFNM aspect of massages, and the thrill/unknown aspect of whether she will touch me. I’ll often choose spots that actually have a high google review rating, and might be a HE spot.

I’ll almost always get hard during the massage itself, especially when she touches my balls or my ass. The thrill of her seeing my arousal is fun, especially when she laughs or comments on it….very often my dong will even pour precum with excitement, just from the anticipation and build up of it. sometimes I’ll go for the HJ, sometimes not just depending on how I’m feeling.

I still give a generous tip even if she doesn’t stroke me, just because I enjoy the massage itself and I like supporting them. Anyone else get a similar thrill from it?