Hello Hamilton Swingers!

I've noticed recently myself interacting with all of you and had a few of you (mostly F but a couple M too) message me with some concerns about the messages/vibes you've been getting off the page.

This community is a safe space for those in the swinging community looking to connect with others, but unfortunately some of you are making our space not so safe and not so fun for others. as we are about to hit 1000 members I figured and I would be a good time to lay out some things for the mostly men but a few of the women on this sub Reddit.

1. you should not be direct messaging anybody off of this sub Reddit without their prior consent. "but then how am I supposed to meet/connect with people!?" - simply put you should be posting in people's posts if you want to connect and ask there in your comment if you can direct message or leave a comment asking them to direct message you unless otherwise stated The majority of people don't want random dick pics/creepy messages in their DM's

that leads us to

2) some of you are just fucking creepy and that needs to stop, if you are not mature enough to use a little bit of common sense, manners and interact with our community appropriately then you just need to leave. we get it everybody here is horny and everybody here wants to meet somebody however nobody wants to be harassed and some of you guys are really on the line if not already over it.

3) this one is for the guys seriously stop it. when you're messaging a girl or even a guy for that matter nobody cares how ripped you are how big your dick is etc not everybody is looking for a baseball bat and not everybody is looking for David Hasselhoff.. if those are the only things you have to talk about then maybe you aren't mature enough for the community, generally when you first start talking to somebody they want to know a little bit about you & that you're going to be respectful of their boundaries if they should choose to invite you or meet up with you.. if your first thought when messaging someone is to send a picture of your genitals just don't.. these are real people behind every account not just bags of meat for your pleasure.

4) so what should you talk about? generally people want to know about you as a person. are you somebody they can trust? are you somebody who's safe or are you gonna put them in danger? do you care about boundaries or do you only care about yourself? when you first start talking to people maybe just try talking a little bit about yourself and see if there's a good Vibe, nobody here wants to be harassed and everybody should feel safe.

5) before you even send somebody a naked picture you should be asking them if they even want to see it not everybody does and not everybody cares what you are packing.

moving forward the moderation team will be acting way more aggressively towards creeps and repeat offenders. if you are being creepy do not be surprised if you are blocked off the page. thanks for everybody's cooperation and most importantly

happy swinging!

-EA