Looking for advice. My friend and I have been recently trying to reconnect and rebuild a friendship. He is poly so he sees many people however there is someone he was seeing that told him he wasn't allowed to see me. He did tell me he showed her my photo so I can guess that she was jealous of what she saw and that's why she dosent care if he sees other people. He had an argument with her and was spending time with me again and he assured me he wouldn't let her get in the way of us again. We recently had a really good night together and I felt we were bonding again. She messages him and tells him she wants to talk. He leaves me to go see her and promises to me over and over he will tell me what happens and he will absolutely not be spending the night with her. I asked if I could meet her several times in which he replied no. He goes to see her and hours pass and I don't hear from him at all. I message him a few times and he sends me a very shot vague message that it's all good and have a good night. I don't here from him the next morning. I call her and he answers🤯 after he promised me he wouldn't spend the night at all. He shut off his phone while with her but never does that with me. I feel extremely hurt and lied to and his polyamorous life does not seem ethical at all as I'm left in the dark. Evert time he goes to see her he shuts me put. I don't know what she is saying to him but I have a very strong feeling she is manipulating him. I also feel like I should have put my foot down when I told him he could see her even after he spent time with me. I feel likehe values her more than me and yet tells me he still loves me over and over and he also tells me stories of how desperate she is. I don't know what to do. I'm extremely hurt and when I express that to him about how he's nice to her and not me he gets angry with me and says I'm the problem. But when we are together everything is fine. I'm so incredibly sad as I still have feelings but I don't like this constant breaking of promises and I'm starting to feel like I'm being lied to. I think about his actions it it seems like there's favoritism. Again I haven't met her but I certainly don't trust what she is saying to him. I know she is active on here too