Long post incoming. Please DM if you’ve read fully… there will be a password ;)

My wife and I have been together 12 years, married 5 coming up this Friday. We are both bi but neither of us has any experience fooling around with the same sex physically.

We’ve talked about creating social profiles to find a guy or like minded couple to play with but just haven’t done it or get cold feet with the anxiety of planning.

Here’s what I’d like to do on our anniversary next weekend:

Head out to the bars and have a few drinks with her with plans to go to a hotel later. You (a guy or MF couple) come up to us and start conversation as people in bars sometimes do. Start friendly and normal but as we all get more comfortable, I’ll steer the conversation into more of a sexually charged one. We all go back to the hotel and have an awesome night. The password btw is dishwasher. Start your DM with that!

Planning together hasn’t worked and she’s said she’d rather it ‘just happen’. It hasn’t been easy finding another bi dude or couple out in the wild.

Other things to note: -neither of us are into anal -if you’re a couple, we will only swap to play with same sex partners. Sex in the same room is fine but only with your partner. -condoms are an absolute requirement -discretion is also required -not into pain/watersports/cucking/humiliation

If you’re interested, send a DM. I’ll want to meet you next week at some point over a coffee to ensure you’re legit.

Hope to chat with you soon!