On one hand, we’re all advocating for the idea that herpes is no big deal—it’s common, manageable, and not something to be overly worried about. But are we being completely honest with ourselves and others?

At the same time, herpes cure advocacy often amplifies studies and potential links to other diseases, making herpes sound far more serious to attract attention and funding. This approach can feel a bit misleading, as it portrays the condition as worse than it might be. Yet, we’re also encouraged to downplay its impact when talking to others, which can feel equally misleading.

It’s hard to reconcile these conflicting narratives, and honestly, I don’t even know what to believe anymore. I feel mentally drained.