I’m trying to have casual sex again. I have hsv1 oral. I matched with a guy on tinder. He’s here for work and I can tell it’s going to be a one night stand. Which is completely fine with me.

I don’t plan on giving him head cause I only enjoy it when I actually know the person for some reason lol but my question is. Is there any point in disclosing?? Idk if he’ll wanna kiss but I for sure won’t be giving him head.

I don’t see the point in disclosing but also why have I always felt guilty and if I should constantly be disclosing for no reason??

I wanted to add a story that happened to me as well. I’m almost 3 years celibate. The last guy I hooked up with, I disclosed and explained 3 different times before we hooked up, the risks of hsv. He accused me days later of giving it to him. He never showed me proof and told me he had no money to get tested. I feel like he was trying to get me to send him money. I also thought because of this encounter I had given myself hsv genitally. Because I had weird symptoms. But I have gotten tested 3 different times when I thought there was an outbreak and all came back negative. After lots of googling and matching my symptoms, it seems like I could just be prone to yeast infections lol because the “outbreak” always disappeared in about a day or less than a day. And the 3 different people who examined me all said it wasn’t hsv.

That guy who accused me of giving it to him, has stuck with me almost 3 years later and it bothers me tbh.