I just got rejected again probably the second time in the past few months and I can honestly say I don’t really care anymore lol. Like I totally get if I’m not worth the risk of herpes to someone, it’s completely understandable and I don’t hate myself for it anymore. I don’t feel gross, worthless, or anything like that. Because it’s not PERSONAL. They’re rejecting the potential idea of having herpes not you as a person and that’s the most important thing to take from getting rejected. Disclosure has become so second nature I’ve started doing it before I even meet up with guys so that I don’t feel attatched and get my feelings hurt by building a connection. There’s so many guys in this world I can’t trip over a few not wanting me lol. It’s all good