We've only had sex 3 times since her last pap roughly a year ago, she has pre menopause so shes never in the mood and finds me trying to initiate sex more aggravating than anything. I think she cheated but she says there's other ways to catch it other than sex. She has been very distant since she got the results from her last pap. She has 1 tiny wart on her chest. Can someone please enlighten me. Am I over reacting? Is it not a big deal? Is it possible she didn't cheat. I do travel a lot for work but no one night stand is worth loosing my wife, my kids, home, or income. I am the sole provider of my family and I am loyal. I really hope she wouldn't do that to this family.