Trying SO hard to unlearn so much shit. TDLR if you haven’t seen my other posts: gay relationship, but I’m feminine presenting and higher libido partner, they’re masculine presenting and lower libido than me. I kinda hate using “HL” and “LL” because I know we have so little honest information about sexuality in this society that I feel I can’t accurately even say if mine is “high” or if I was just taught as a woman it should be lower, lmaoooo. I was just having the thought as I’m reading “Feel It All” by Casey Tanner that I logically KNOW that I’m not alone as a feminine person desiring more sex than my masculine partner. It’s normal, there’s nothing wrong with it, etc. But god do I just want to throw a temper tantrum and say “I know it’s ok but I also don’t want it to be this way! I want to have it the ‘easy’ way!” I just need a moment to acknowledge that. I don’t want to push it away or punish the thought for happening, I just need to work through it (somehow, lol). Thanks for listening, my DM’s are always open for commiserating or giving advice etc ❤️