I’m 30 and my husband is 41. We have been together for almost 6 years and have had many conversations about our dead bedroom and they have not gone anywhere. I was joking around with my husband because my friend bought me a loaf of bread while we were hanging out and I joked that she wants to get in my pants. He said “Yeah?”. I was like “Yeah because what I have in my pants is good.” He said “I guess” and he shrugged. I asked him what he meant and he said “nothing”. And then I said “well at least she wants to sleep with me unlike you who hasn’t fucked me in two years.” I asked him why several times and he said “I’m sorry, I don’t have an answer.” I’m just over it at this point. I feel like I’ll never have an answer. What can I do at this point?