I’ve never been in a relationship where I have had to compromise sexually (I always had the slightly lower libido or we were about equal). Anyways now that is the case and I’d like to ask someone who has more relationship experience than me this question: how do you pursue getting what you want out of a sexual relationship in general while also accounting for that you won’t always get what you want? How can you tell if you have overall satisfaction or not (especially if you’re someone like me who’s experiencing rejection in a LTR for the first time)? I feel like I cannot separate that factor in my head and get a more broad perspective on my situation because experiencing rejection like this for the first time consistently is SO fucking painful. What did you ask yourself that helped you understand how you felt? Thank you for your help!