Hello,

New here, but need some advice from this community to make sure I am being reasonable my head . I'll keep this post as short as possible and to the point.

Married with kids. Love my wife to death, our life is awesome. So no issues there.

I have a really high drive and she has I guess average drive. For myself everyday would be what I need, with the odd twice a day and odd day or 2 breaks are fine too.

If she is honest with me I think once a week maybe twice would be fine for her. Although she never seems to care how long a break could be.

Currently we do it probably 3 times a week, sometimes 4. I feel like I should he happy with that, but the drive for more is so strong. It often affects my mood if we don't do it enough. She is also amazing in bed, like a new person comes out when she is really into it. She also gives the best BJs on planet earth.... which makes it that much harder to resist not doing it more.

Along with frequency I am pushing to be more adventurous with things with mixed success from her.

We are having a big discussion about this again, as it comes up and once and while... and not sure how hard I should push for what I truly want. I try to be amazing in the areas she cares about such as family time, and her interests. And she says I do awesome.

Should I just suck it up and deal with feeling unfulfilled at times and being a little depressed at possibilities of some sex fantasies never being fulfilled.

Thanks in advance everyone.