I don’t remember being this horny in my 20s for real, when i wasn’t ready to have kids.

Maybe that’s why alot of dead bedrooms (but not all), has a wife who is now “take it or leave it “ about sex, because their babyfever is gone? Especially for couples who already have kids.

I know consciously not everyone wants kids, but maybe libido is tapping into the subconscious need to procreate and libido could decrease alot as a woman, either when they already feel they have enough kids, or when the time to have kids is over?

No matter how people try to make sexy time or sexy dates or what not as older adults, I think biologically and mentally its not gonna have that same edge to it as when u really want a kid or feel very fertile and sexy.

Maybe sex has to become more spiritual than physical in old age. Only some women have a high libido past 45-50 when procreation desire is gone.