I've been lurking and rarely participating for a while. My LL is just much or rather just far too little. We tried once a week and it burned her out and wasn't enough for me. We opened our marriage. She got a boyfriend she also doesn't sleep with. I joined the LS and made some FWBs. My life is better but she is barely a part of it anymore. Divorce is happening. I will never marry again and therefore not be in a position where someone controls when and with whom I have sex save in the giving of consent.

Thank you all for your support. I feel it I have moved to a place where rather than support I am feeling sadness that I waited so long when I read of others in a position I am exiting. Good luck to those who continue to work toward a relationship with sexually incompatible partners.