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I just broke up with my girlfriend f(19) me-M (19). We’ve been dating for 9 months and I love her so much. I broke up with her bc I couldn’t give her the attention she needed and I watched her slowly resent me for it. Last night we talked for 2 hours and ended with both of us crying saying I love you and hanging up. She was my first true love, like I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. I dreamed abt it last night and woke up thinking it was a dream. I don’t mean that in a cliche way either I reached to text her abt it but I remembered it. It hurts so bad not having someone who gets you and loves you unconditionally to tell anything you want to. Anyone who has gone through this how long does this feeling last? Is there anything that I can do to help forget or do I just have to live with it. I know it will get better but I hate the feeling of it now. Everything I look at reminds me of her.
It will take atleast a month for initial grief, and yes it is grief trust me I remember. In a few months it will be just pain, in 6 months longing. After that you should be able to move on.
Do the things you always loved but try to make them healthy things. Don't sit around gaming or scrolling too much. Get out to the beach or whatever the nice places are near you.
See your friends, don't let them speak bad of her. Trust me you will remember that for years.
Remember you are you. If she fell in love with you somebody else will in time.
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