I am 29 male, married to my girlfriend after 7 amazing years of relationship. We are very much mentally & spiritually connected to each other. Relationship is stimulating enough from every perspective helping us to grow as a better person everyday.

From past few months, I am struggling to maintain physical level of intimacy. I feel this is happening because of 2 reasons

• Our way of sexual expression & intimacy has been a bit different from the start, we have laughed about it & loved each other.

—Because of so many years of staying together & too familiar body feel, it doesn’t release the same level of dopamine as before.

We have discussed about this very openly & genuinely with each other. Our hearts remain fully connected to each other. We have decided to think of possibility of engaging sexually with someone else, who can understand that I don’t have much to offer in terms of a long term romantic relationship. Yet so much to offer in terms of intimacy & connection.

I am a genuine & ethical person by design, so you will definitely feel connection as a friend & emotionally safe.

I don’t want to involve my partner in any of my escapade neither would like to get involved in hers.

I would not like this to be termed as cheating, this is more of ENM relationship (I am yet to get a hang of what can be a healthy way of doing it, very new with it)

Since this is so out of the normal for me, I would like to talk to someone who I can feel sexually & mentally connected to. Vibing with the other person is a must. I am attracted to diverse body types, so it’s not a one dimensional variable.

I would like to connect to people (any gender) from a general discussion perspective if other people who are married going through similar feelings.

And females who think they would like to engage with me. I am fairly attractive & clean (have visible abs if that matters, and a lean body). I am straight just to be clear.

I am based in gurgaon mostly so if you are nearby would be a plus. I am mostly busy with travel, work, fitness & running so availability will be a problem but I can manage time for sure by planning things in advance.

You will be motivated for life after spending time with me - this is a certain thing. Rest well can figure out when we talk. I will be very forthcoming to verify & expect the same from people connecting to me.

Thankyou & have a good day. Be kind please 🙏🏻