DISCLAIMER:

Some people seem to conflate an interest in CnC and the power dynamics that come with it with an actual desire to cause harm to a non-consenting person.

I do not, and have no desire for any non-consensual happenings.

There are also a lot of people who claim that they want CnC, but then don't do any of the necessary safety prep to ensure that everyone is safe and happy in the scenario.

If you are not willing to take your time with a kink as potentially harmful and extreme as roleplay rape and consensual nonconsent can be, then I am not the dom for you.

Here's a little about me:

I value informed and enthusiastic consent.

I value the person who is trusting me to do right by them when they are at their most vulnerable.

I may act maliciously, and speak as though I have no regard for you, or your limits. It's all just that: an act. It's a switch that I can flip at any given moment. I'm always in control of myself- even if the scenario seems like it's getting out of hand.

I've always been the kind of person who seeks out new experiences and sensations all the time.

New people to talk to, new places to see, new tastes, and sights, and smells.

When it comes to sex, however, I would say that I treat it as a way to deeper understand the people I know and interact with. To me, sex hinges on our abilities to let go. To stop thinking. To let the world melt away while myself and my partner experience one another in the most intimate way that I can think of.

I'm very "service-oriented" in my dominance. I like to fill the exact role that my submissive needs from me. If you need Daddy, then you get him. If you need cruelty, then you will receive it. If you want to be objectified and abused, then I will happily do so.

It all depends on our negotiations.

But enough of that! You're here for the sexy stuff, not my kinky philosophy.

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I will do all in my power to ensure that, when you're with me, you'll never know if the hand on the back of your head will stroke your hair, or force you onto your knees and fuck your throat until you gag and spit.

When I give hugs, I like to completely envelop you with my long arms and pull you tightly into me.

When I hold you tight, I want you to realize just how easily I could snap you into pieces if I ever felt like it.

When I hold your hand, I want you to know that you couldn't pull away from my grip, even if you wanted to.

Whenever I touch you, I want you to understand just how small and weak you are when compared to a predator like myself.

I want you to feel safe and secure, yet also trapped: like a canary in a golden cage.

I like to use my size and strength against my subs.

To initiate sex by grabbing people by their hair and dragging them to the bedroom. The more they pull away, the more they hurt themselves.

To make my partners taste how turned on they are. I  like to shove my fingers deep into their pussies, and then force them down their throat

To make people assume positions, crawl, and beg for what I give them. Doesn't matter if it's pleasure or pain. If I'm giving it to you, then you will beg for it, accept it, and thank me for it.

I like to give firm and rough grips on the arm and wrist that cause bruises, hard slaps to remind brats of their place, and forced free use, no matter when and where.

You may not even be allowed to wear any kind of bottom except for a skirt around me, either. No panties. I want easy access to what's mine. That way, if I get sick of your attitude, and decide that you need correcting, I'll be able to do so with minimal obstruction.

If I cum in you, and you decide to waste that cum by letting it spill out, then I'll force you to lick it up

If I decide that I want to use you, then it will happen.

Nothing you say, other than your safe word, will stop me, and resistance will only make me hurt you.

How badly?

That depends on your tolerance for pain, and how hard I have to work to take what I want from you.

Good girls, who recognize their place and offer themselves to me when I (or they) desire, will be treated with all of the kindness and softness that I can muster. If you want an experience that is grounded in passive coercion, and the threat of violence, then the most resistance you will offer is making me force your legs apart.

Then, there are those of you who like to fight, and need to be reminded of where they stand. I treat fighters on a case-by-case basis, and escalate based on the severity of their behavior. The more fiercely you resist, the more violent I become.

Open hand strikes to the body will escalate to closed fists.

Light grips on the neck will escalate to me choking you out and breeding your unconscious body. If you come to, and start up again, then I will happily put you back down.

If you desire a truly cruel and violent experience, then you will fight me with every ounce of strength that you have. I want to see how fierce you think you are.

If I have my way, then you'll never feel truly at ease. Even the tightest and most genuine feeling hug could quickly become a violent assault.

You'll be just a warm fuckdoll who gets to play like she's human when around other people.

No matter what I do to you, who I give you to, or how much you hate what is happening in the moment, you will recognize that you are at your most beautiful when your makeup is ruined, your body aches, and your holes leak. And still, you will thank me for it.

I am excellent at maintaining a sweet tone and kind smile when I'm punishing someone, or treating them cruelly.

You may actually think that you deserve it, even when I'm just hurting you because I want to see you cry.

You'll start to overanalyze my body language, and attempt to figure our if there is any malice behind my warm smile and kind eyes. Every gesture I make towards you, large or small, will case your heart to jump.

Will I stroke your face, or will I slap it? Will I run my fingers through your hair, or will I grab a handful and drag you to the backyard so I can spray you with the garden hose?

Do I really want to snuggle, or am I waiting for you to relax, just so I can take advantage?

I want you to always be on the back foot, and in fear of what I may do to you. But I also want you to always know that I will never push you beyond the limits that we set beforehand.

Sometimes I'm a little scared of what I'm capable of, and who I become when I'm "in character," but I think it enhances the rush for me when all is said and done.

As long as the person I'm with consents 100%, and I don't have any worries about their communication abilities, then the only limits are the ones we agree upon before a session or scene begins.

I can say that my kinks stem from trauma. I've found that I get release, both mental and sexual, from being able to express that kind of malice, but on my own terms, in an environment that I know is safe and that I have control over.

Well, you have control over. As the sub, the real power rests with you. I can only do what you consent to. Anything else is just abuse masquerading as kink.

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I know that this was a lot to read, but I try to take a kink with so much potential for danger very seriously.

If you're curious:

My ever expanding list of kinks includes: CnC/Ravishment, throat fucking, forced bi, face slapping, spanking, forced orgasms, multiple orgasms, anal training, collars, mental conditioning, bruises, choking, takedown play, rope/ribbon bondage, free use, pet training, and (my personal favorite) breeding/creampies.

I'll leave you with a few questions:

What do you want the most in a potential relationship? (Play partners, short term, long term, etc)

What kind of dominance best fits your flavor of submission? (Domineering, doting, daddy, etc.)

What are your hard/soft limits?

What is it about your role that you enjoy the most, and how can I facilitate scenarios that satisfy both of our wants and needs?

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If you're a visual person, then please don't hesitate to check out this little gallery It contains photos of myself, and how I've enjoyed spending my time. I hope that you like what you see!

I am enm/poly: you don't have to be friends, but you will at least know one another.

Thank you for taking the time to read this ad. I hope to hear from you soon!

• Leon