I just bought my first pump and I have a couple questions and some rambling about my problems with cumming:

1) How do I know the pump is at 5lbs of pressure/PSI? The measurements on my pump are very confusing. If anyone has tips, I’m all ears.

2) The cylinder I have is longer than I need (had to get a cismale pump) do I need to cut it down? What happens if the cylinder too long?

When I ordered the pump I planned to cut it down, but was too excited and used it twice already. It doesn’t give me a boner or make me able to maintain an erection. It has made my dick more sensitive, which is what I need. (Yes, I know that I need to pump regularly for results)

— Sex talk:

The problem I’m having with my dick is that I have trouble cumming during sex. It’s been really frustrating for myself and sometimes sexual partners ( :( ). I’m not sure if it’s relevant or what other people’s experience is, but I can be receiving oral and go soft between being hard. (Like is this just normal?)

So yeah, basically I get super close to cumming a lot and just can’t do it. My goal would to be able to cum without a vibrator. I’ve had a lot of almost moments during vaginal and anal intercourse but have never done it yet.

Uhhh, thanks in advance I have been lurking here for a while!