forgive me if this is the wrong type of thing to post here.. it was either here or r/relationship_advice, but i haven’t been friends with this person since last July, and the core issue is grief, so i opted for here..

anyway, long story short, i told this person i felt like they weren’t supportive ever since i lost my other friend last June (i told them this in April), they didn’t really respond; and then last week they texted me and asked how i’ve been. i was honest and said i’ve been sad. they left me on “read”, no reply.. part of me wants to confront them and just go off, but my question is, is it worth it? (considering that they didn’t respond the first time i told them they were being unsupportive, it’s probably not worth it, but i wanted to get some perspective anyway..)

it’s just so frustrating that this person has said they ”know how i feel”, yet can’t hold space or be supportive when i reach out about struggling, and then completely ignore me when i’m honest about how i’m feeling. like, oh, ok thanks. the reality of it is, i’m always going to miss my friend. i’d rather someone say they don’t know what to say or do, or at least ask if they can do anything to help than just ignore it.