It was all of a sudden. In his mid 60s. He and his wife divorced 22 years ago. She lives with us now.

He was a good guy yet not so great at the same time. My wife is struggling. Regrets, questions. Even in death he's left us uknowing of his life.

Anyway, my wife is obviously having a hard time. Not crying or anything but coming to terms and letting go of the regret.

My question is how can I not take her emotions and feelings toward me personally? I'm struggling too and wondering if her regrets aren't about him persay, but about life decisions and choosing to be with me.

I know, it's only been 2 months. Do I just keep my head down and let her deal and wait for the fog to lift?