It's been 25 days since I lost my wife of 21 years, and I find myself so lost in this world. She's the mother of my kids, she was and will always be my wife. I told her before we got married to make sure I was who she wanted because I would only get married once in my life. And I find myself realizing that my person is gone forever, and never coming back. This isn't how my life was supposed to go. I'm trying to pick the broken pieces of my kids up, navigating being thrown into the role of a single dad, instantly picking up the void where she was, and trying to grieve. The problem is there is no time for me to grieve, not with having kids who just lost their mom. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, REMEMBER EACH AND EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU IS NEEDED, LOVED, CHERISHED, AND MOST OF ALL WANTED!!!!!!