Hi everyone

We lost our little brother C. (27) almost 3 months ago now. Yesterday, my bf broke up with after 2 years relationship and this morning I learned that my other brother M. (29) lost one of his bestfriends to a car accident.

I feel devasted and worried. I have managed a lot, I organised the ceremony of life of C., also stayed with my family for 2 months to help out and everything. I am very close to my youngest siblings (21 and 18), but I am not with M. We have very different ways of grieving (he wants not to show emotions, not to cry, etc). I still want him to know I am there for him and he can rely on me if needed.

But it is like my own grief is teaching me nothing and being myself overwhelmed by the loss of C. and my recent break up, I feel totally lost. How do you manage to help and be there for your family if needed ? Thank you so much 💙