Hey there!

So, this is difficult for me to do but I believe it is the first time after a difficult break up that I am willing to put myself out there in a healthier fashion than I normally would have.

I just recently got out of a very very toxic relationship and am looking to meet new people to hopefully become friends with. Now, when I say toxic, I cannot and will not blame this lovely woman for all of the toxicity throughout the relationship. I have my faults and that is okay- I’m not asking for anyone to love every single part of me nor would I hope that he expected of me as well. I believe that our morals, values, and beliefs clashed on many different levels, and that the immediate attraction and connection had us both holding on to something that just wasn’t there. It’s an unfortunate situation but I wish her the best.

I am not just coming on here to meet women to date, that is not at all my intention. My issue is that with my line of work, and how I met my ex so quickly after moving down here from new york last year that I have a very hard time making friends whatsoever. I figured a singles group would be the most obvious choice being that well. I’m single lol.

I’m a pretty laid back guy, not a lot of things get my goose. I’m also very sarcastic and like to joke around so more serious type people may find me abrasive. I’m a pretty open and vulnerable guy- I’m pretty sure anyone who has continued to read this can see that doing something like this is pretty out there.

I have a wide variety of hobbies, and I also feel I should mention that I am sober. I had a long battle with my alcoholism and it got most recently much worse through out this relationship. Which honestly I am thankful for as it has been a life saver in my eyes. I went to a rehab in New York that was a 90 day program and it changed my outlook tremendously. And then my dumbass thought the smartest thing to do was to leave my family and friends and come back to SC to pursue a relationship I had known to be harmful.

The worst part now is that I’ve found a job that has potential markings to lead to a stable and successful career, which I do not want to give up on.

Well. I don’t really know what I’m doing or why, I guess Moreso I am just tired of being upset and finding it difficult to make friends. If anyone and everyone would like to chat, feel free to hit me up. Thanks 🙂