I'm looking for a long-term, in-person FWB in Western NY! I've have success meeting some cool people on here, and would like to keep exploring 😊

I'm a curvy, BBW, white, F28 with long dark hair and dark eyes. I'm hourglass-shaped with a bit of a tummy. I have thick thighs and a fat ass. I dress punk/alt - think black clothes and leather boots all the time. Ill gladly send pictures if we get along!

I like anime, videogames, fantasy - most nerdy things! Art and music are passions of mine too - I'm an artist in my free time and I used to be a professional musician. I like meme humor and I love to laugh.

I'd like to meet someone I connect with sexually, and that I can get along with. I want someone I share some of my hobbies and joke around with, in addition to the sex 🤭 I want that deep connection where you trust the other person completely, and you feel like you can talk about anything with them. I want the "friend" in "friend with benefits" 😅

I prefer people my age or older.

Please don't just say "hey" or send a dick pic immediately and expect this to go anywhere. Introduce yourself. Tell me your ASL and a little about you - I want to know! 😊 Please, something other than "wyd" or "hiiiii" or "hey" or "M28?" If I can't trust you to follow directions on a post, I wont trust you with my body.

Before you message, please know:

1. I'm in an open relationship. My partner knows I'm on here doing this - and encourages it!
2. Please don't message me if you're cheating on your partner. Singles or people in open relationships only, please.
3. If we meet in person, please be willing to prove that you're clean. I am clean and have the tests to prove it!
4. I am shy, and I have a history of sexual trauma - both of which I am trying to overcome. If I don't answer, or don't answer right away, please be patient. This is kind of new for me and I get overwhelmed 😅