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And was greated warmly! I was there to buy paints for my ork army. It started out great, I actually know the owner from high school. We hung in similar crowds but hadn't interacted in years.
I had written down a list of paints and as I was standing there doing a mental checklist of what they had, the owner comes over. He asks me if I need help with anything, and then asks if I'm getting the paints for someone else. Because, you know, why would a girl be into 40k? I try not take offense and proceed to tell him I'm buying the paints for myself. "OH! You wrote the list then. I seem to remember you being pretty artsy in high school." He asks me what I'm painting and when I start talking about my (unpainted) ork army he seemed really taken aback. I got the impression he didn't think I was into the hobby, or I was painting them because I like to paint, or I was painting my bf's army or something stupid like that.
Maybe I'm reading too much into it, I didn't get the impression he was trying to come off how I was taking it, but all my life I've felt like I've needed to defend myself and my hobbies to others. Because I like things that "boys" like. It's made me a little defensive.
Well. What he doesn't know is I'll be back. With my painted waaagh and I will kick some 'umie ass. And I can't wait to see the look on his face when I do so.
This is why I shop online for hobby related things. Too many shitty experiences from before online shopping was popular. I thought things were getting better but I recently went to PC parts store because I didn’t want to wait for shipping. Big mistake. Huge. 🤣 Jk it wasn’t as awful as gaming stores in the early 2000s but still a fair amount of condescension. 🥲 “Wow you really did your homework” in the tone you would use on a child. Incessant questions on what I’m going to use the pc for, what games I play, if I’ve “ever head of Final Fantasy” 😑😑😑😑
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