Edit: some comments pointed out this is not about being gifted. I read again the rules for this subreddit and realized this is indeed off topic so my apologies about that. The reason I posted here was that other subreddits are quick to judge my ideas when they are too much "out of the box". I believed gifted individuals could bring some intersting points to the discussion.

I was thinking about relationships and how society shapes our moral values. And then something kinda hit me. When pursuing friendship, it does not matter how many people you want to connect with. If someone is nice and has your interest, then you just go for it right? And usually your other friends won't be jalous because you make a new connection. So then how come it is so different with love ? How come that once you decide you're a couple, you're tied down and cannot explore new stuff ? Are people so afraid of solitude, or being abandonned that we have to chain down our feelings and make them so special ? Or is it only because we are "brainwashed" by society that we think it is so wrong to have lovers on the side ?

As a disclaimer, I just wanna add this is a thought that crossed my mind and I just wanted to let it out freely. I am not looking for some form of validation to pursue several lovers at the same time. Let's be open minded about this 🤗