I've been at this for a few weeks now, and my husband thinks I'm being too hard on myself about my post-meal numbers so I thought I'd ask what Reddit thinks. My diabetes nurse and doctors are always happy with my numbers. I check my post meal numbers at 2 hrs. Right now, my numbers are always under 120. They usually range 90-98. Yesterday I was in the high 80's post meals. However there are a few times where I'll get a 103-107 because I ate a whole apple for a snack instead of half, or because I ate a low carb pizza. I beat myself up every time I go over 100. My husband thinks as long as I'm not spiking above 120, I should consider myself good. But should I?

Am I being too harsh on myself here? What numbers are you typically aiming for?