Honestly, until this subreddit is 100% up and running, I am using a basic set of rules from various other meet-up style subreddits (mainly r/dirtyr4r). As time goes on and I'm able to actually make a dedicated set of rules, this will serve as a guideline to provide order in here. So, here it goes:

PLEASE!! PLEASE!! PLEASE!! USE THE PROPER POSTING FORMAT!! Example: AGE [M4F] #LOCATION - WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR

As mods, we see dozens of posts get created in this group. Unfortunately, 95% of them are either removed or automatically marked as spam or flagged for not being formatted properly. If you're going to ignore the proper title format, don't bother wasting your time creating a post. No one but you will see it. In this subreddit's infancy, a few posts were able to squeak by for the sake of generating conversation and getting the group up and running. Now that there are over 1k members, there must be a standard that everyone adheres to. There is a teeny tiny bit of wiggle room in some cases, but soon, even this won't be the case.

UPDATE: AS OF 1-4-2023, ALL POST MUST USE CORRECT FORMATTING IN TITLE. NO EXCUSES!!

DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.

SELLING

Selling is not allowed AT ALL in this subreddit. There are plenty of other venues to sell your products on, so please do not do it here.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

This should go without having to be said, but PLEASE respect the privacy of others. No sharing or distributing of other peoples content. We're all here for a good time, so please don't come into this subreddit with predatory behavior.

GENDER TAGS

Gender tags are a requirement here. Be sure to state the orientation you identify as and what you are looking for. For example, M4F (Male for Female), etc...

SAFETY FIRST

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE remember that safety comes first. Be sure to do your due diligence and take proper precautions when meeting someone from the internet (or in life period). Don't share personal information until you're ready, and even then, beware of the information that you choose to give out.