Sexual fulfillment is important, but please don't make important life decisions solely thinking about it.

I have a friend who I've known for a long time. She was fun and kind and all of that other stuff. But she was also into DDLG, and she put sex ahead of everything else. She would often end up with abusive boyfriends, and need to be talked out of abusive relationships.

Now, because of quarantine and college, with no one there to talk through things, she has married an older man who does not let her see or talk to her friends often, and often fights with her. But, he is into the same things as her, so she overlooks it.

I really miss her, and I'm very concerned for her. Please don't let your kinks take over your life.