What I'm looking for: I'm a dominant male top looking for a submissive bottom into rough play and submission and punishment and or pain play. I'm not dominant by being an inflexible asshole though, im dominant by making you want to do what I want and occasionally being more forceful to get you to serve me how I want until you get more into it and able to get off on it.

(At the bottom are what I'm looking for in a sub and where to message me. I'm long winded so putting this up here)

I'm not opposed to long term things if it works really well but I have a busy life being in college for mechanical engineering and so this is likely to be a short to medium term thing, and possibly repeated short term things as well.

About me: I'm about 6' tall, 190lbs, athletic muscular build, dark brown hair, blue eyes, 8.6" long, 6.5" of girth, large balls.

My kinks: BDSM, CBT, spanking, Dom Sub obviously, impact play, bondage, chastity sometimes but not a huge thing, I want to force you to cum as well as prevent you from doing so so that I control your orgasms, painal / rough anal, completely optional is feminization if you want it that's awesome if not fine by me. And many more. forced orgasm / post orgasm stimulation / overstimulation torture basically making you cum then making you keep stimulating your cock until you're a dribbling twitching mess so pleasurable you feel like your cock is on fire and can't tell if you want more or want it to stop.
I am in the process of getting a personal trainer certification and have some experience training friends and relatives and myself, and its a kink for me to do nude or erotic workouts, possibly as part of a bdsm thing.

My limits: basically, it's just nothing based around filth or bad smells, nothing illegal, nothing that risks serious or lasting harm, and I will respect your limits as well.

My kink requirements: you have to be willing to do anal, you have to be willing to do some mild bdsm at the very bare minimum, and not a kink but you have to be willing to send pictures and videos of the things you do, no face is required, just below the neck stuff, and I will send the same.

About you: these are all things that give you bonus points but feel free to message anyway even if you don't meet all of these things, this is an ideal list, no one will have everything on this list.

Be around my age 18 - 27 you can be older its fine.
Be shaved or be willing to shave, ass hair is not hot and neither are pubes or armpit hair, chest hair is less good but totally fine same with the rest of the body, back hair is not hot at all, if you arent shaved but are willing to do so for me thats great and a good first act of submission so bonus points honestly if you shave for me.
Fem boys, twinks, non binary, and trans people front of the line huge bonus points. If you're thin or thicc fit and muscular or not, it's all ok, but lean is a plus, but if you're willing to let me personal train you then it's a non-issue. Submissive and or eager to serve, you can trust me to make sure you're getting pleasure from this and enjoying it, so if you are focused on serving me as best you can and focused on how you can use your body to serve me and please me sexually and how you can submit to me thats perfect. But here's my other thing, I love when people without much experience are my sub, I enjoy getting to help them experience things they have only fanasized about, but only if they're eager to explore, I don't want to feel like I'm dragging you along doing something you don't want to be doing and arent enjoying on some level.

Where I communicate: Here on reddit chat is much preffered but you can try PMs they just are likely to be missed by me. Telegram for videos. I do not do live video calls, its just not something I enjoy, I am more than happy to verify my identity in any way youd like within reason, I just don't want to actually video or voice call. I'm open to suggestions for other places to chat but those are my primary ones.

When you message me its totally fine by me if we talk before exchanging pictures, and of course start off with discussing limits and kinks and what youre hoping for first. But it is a MASSIVE bonus if you include a picture of yourself, and the less clothing the more bonus points, face not needed at all. But like I'm not a robot and if your first message turns me on you're getting picked. Also please send more than just "hi" or "I'm interested" lead with something about yourself, your kinks, your limits, what you are hoping for, your experience level, anything.