what’s the cut off age then? at what age does it become NOT okay to sexually assault other children? I have a 4.5 year old who knows NEVER to touch anyone else’s genitals. please enlighten us.

you’re totally right in that the time period is relevant, but I still stand by what I said, that it isn’t “normal” behaviour, and seven is DEFINITELY old enough to know better. if Lena were a boy “playing” with his younger sisters vagina, I’m sure many people would feel entirely different about the level of appropriateness.

but regardless of how you, or I, the original commenter, or some psychologists feel… it’s not for us to decide what it was anyways. to my knowledge, her sister is unbothered by it so I guess it is what it is.

… so you? lol

good luck to you. playing with a baby’s genitals still isn’t normal :)

I’m an arm chair expert because I think touching a baby’s genitals isn’t normal behaviour??? are we all supposed to be fully educated on every single topic in the world? I even said I was willing to have my opinion changed if you could give me a genuine answer to my question, but your best argument is “tHe ExPeRtS” without citing a single fucking source, doesn’t that make YOU the arm chair expert?

go on though. keep thinking it’s normal. I’ll pray for any children in your life.

so why reply if you were NEVER going to answer the question that I asked lmao. you didn’t have to reply to a comment that was directed at someone else if you don’t wanna answer the question

then answer my initial question. at what age is not “normal” to for you? say a child’s parents NEVER had that conversation with them, which is totally plausible. at what point, in your opinion, does it stop being a child’s curiosity, and start becoming inappropriate, or yes, sexual assault. if she were 14 and her sister was 8, is that still normal? or hell, even 10 and 4? is it okay, because they’re curious? if your answer is yes, swap Lena’s gender again. a 10 year old boy doing that to his 4 year old sister, is THAT normal?

name an exact age where it stops being curiosity and becomes sexual assault. because, in my mind, touching an unconsenting child’s genitals outside of health and medical reasons such as bathing, is sexual assault. and I’m asking because I’m willing to be proven wrong.