22m chub here, recently came out and have found the m-m culture to be less-than-forthcoming in the sense that no one actually shows up/are who they say they are. If you’re interested in playing for the other team, but wanna start off the evening with a couple beers at a sports bar or something before we head back to my apartment, 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️ call me weird but I think it’d be more valuable especially knowing if you don’t like the activities afterwards, cool, you still got a drinking buddy or buddy in general if you’re sober whenever we’re both free. I’m new myself/have only ever given oral and never received, but have been told I had a good “beginners cock” (nice way of saying I have enough to mess around with and find out, but I’m not packing heat by any means) don’t have to put the labels on it, just one dude who’s sure to an extent and the other (you) who isn’t sure what he likes but wants to find out. Disease/drug free pls, 20-26age and bwc/dad bods in general to the front, but I’m open to everybody.