I’ve never done anything like this before but I thought I’d give it a try.

I’m a 50 year old guy living in Buffalo, NY. I’m 5’10”, good-looking, in decent shape with a bit of a hairy dad bod and a scruffy gray beard. When I am in my workout routine, I can be fairly muscular. I don’t make a lot of money, I work hard full time for the things I have.

I’m hoping to find a young guy to care for and share my life and home with. I don’t want to take care of you, I want to guide you and teach you how to take care of yourself and achieve your goals. I’m understanding and loving but I won’t be taken advantage of. I want to care for and love a young man who has his own goals and who will appreciate what I have to give.

I prefer slim to muscular guys between 18 and 21. I like to top younger guys but at my age, my sex drive is unpredictable so it’s often easier for me to bottom for a young top. I’m looking for a special kind of boy who loves, craves and appreciates the experience, wisdom and warmth of an older guy. I’d like to spend some time chatting and getting to know you and if the vibe is right, meet up and see where things go. I prefer guys anywhere in the US to make visiting easier.

I work from home in media and like to cook, go out to eat, chill and snuggle in front of the TV or fireplace, go hiking and be out in nature and explore new places. Not big into the bar and club scene though that can be an occasional fun thing to do. I like to give a young man the freedom to find his own way and make his own choices. But I want to be appreciated and respected. I’m basically an optimistic person who finds humor in a lot of things, and I can be kind of sarcastic, as Gen Xers tend to be. But I’m also very giving and loving. I like being a little romantic.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in taking on, please respond with some photos and tell me a little bit about yourself and your goals.