It’s been a while since my last post so I’ll give this another try!

I’m 30 years old from New Jersey, United States looking for someone to share the rest of my life with.

I’m looking for someone younger than me who is in the United States or who has the ability to come to the United States within a year without needing my help.

Although personality is most important to me, physical / sexual attraction can unfortunately have an impact. My preference is someone who is masculine and at a healthy weight or a little chubby.

Quality time is important to me. Also, I’m looking for a simple life and don’t want children or even a car. I’d prefer to walk everywhere or take public transportation.

I’m passionate about technology and enjoy photography, spending time with nature, studying Google Maps, and reading Wikipedia.

I’m not religious, but believe everyone should have the right to believe what they want as long as it is not causing harm to others. I’m interested in politics, but try not to focus on it.

I’m the type of person to want to be around my partner all the time, know everything about them, and be involved in everything that’s going on in their life. This level of clinginess isn’t for everyone.

Physically, although I’ve been called “cute” and “adorable” by some, I’m a big guy and should lose about half my body weight. If you are turned off by a guy who is that large, then you might want to continue your search.

In addition, my mental health is poor. I’m seeing a therapist and have been trying my best to improve, but it is certain my mental health will impact our relationship (both positively and negatively).

I’m a private person and don’t feel comfortable sharing anything identifying on Reddit, but I’ll share my name and photo on Signal or WhatsApp *if you share first* (since people have been saying they’ll send after me and then don’t).

If you’ve read my post and haven’t found a “dealbreaker”, let’s talk!