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TL;DR - I'm a geeky absent-minded creative 54-year-old looking for a long-term deep friendship (that can grow into something more) with a thin guy 18-20 with naturally little body hair who would like to be creative together with me.

(This is long, sorry... I'm a writer, not an editor.)

I'm a 54-year-old married (polyfidelity) science fiction writer, programmer, futurist, entrepreneur, and occasional furry. I'm an American and I've been living in Portugal for several years. I present slightly younger than my actual age. I have graying brown hair. I usually shave my face. And, I have a bit of a "dad bod".

I love technology and science fiction. I've been a web programmer most of my life. I like to stream science fiction series or sitcoms. My musical tastes have evaporated a bit because it's hard for me to listen to music and work, but I like narrative and emotional pop, emo, rock, and some punk. I'm a bit of a lapsed furry and I miss it.

Although I'm demisexual and aromantic, I find emotional and intellectual relationships very, very rewarding. I tend to be a caregiver and and an empathetic listener. I really enjoy friendships or relationships where we can collaborate on projects and show genuine interest in one another.

My entire life, I've had difficulty with autobiographical memory (memories about myself doing thing in the past). I have no problem remember facts and skills I learn, but my life story can get blurry. This tends to make me very interested in what I'm doing right now. So, I can bounce around from project to project. I absolutely love being creative and making things with technology.

Perhaps because of my autobiographical memory issues, I tend to be more spontaneous and can be more playful and youthful. I find that I connect well with younger men whom I can build emotional trust with. I also prefer to sooner-rather-than-later meet that person IRL. I need this to build a connection. It could be at a restaurant, museum, cafe, etc. You don't need to be in Portugal, but you should be in Europe and preferably in the EU so there's little restriction on travel.

I'm demisexual,as I've mentioned. For me this means that I struggle being attracted to most men and only tend to find myself attracted to androgyny--so thin men who naturally have little body hair. And, at some point in my relationship with someone, physical attraction is really helpful to building a physical long-term relationship.

I prefer to DM here or (even better) use Telegram or Discord.