Please be SoCal local and slender. I have always been into younger men. I am a teacher/mentor irl and some of lads I’ve been privileged to know have been the most attractive to me. Always they have been straight, so we could achieve no connection beyond the professional.

Now that I am out, I am searching for that sweet, slender “lost boy” type of young man who needs real guidance and affection from a father figure. To be clear I am looking for an emotional and sexual relationship with a young man, but not just to be his horny outlet. I would like to look in his eyes and see in his handsome face the adoration of a partner who values me and lets me adore him back. I am white presenting, so ideally my new son would be the same so that we may fly under the radar when necessary. And since I have always been a stocky fellow, my dream is to connect with a slender, twink, athlete, or average guy to feel the kind of body I’ve never had next to mine.

Lastly, to those young men that want to be abused and humiliated: there are plenty of men here and all over that can do that for you. This “older” is a gentleman, and a nurturer and longs uplift his partner, not degrade. Please reach out if you are in the Los Angeles area and are looking for this kind of relationship. DMs open