Just to get them out of the way, here are some potential deal breakers for some of you:

• I'm not interested in sexting. At all. Seriously, it's just not my thing.
• I am into twinks, but if you're not, shoot your shot. :)
• I'm looking for friends, but not a relationship.
  
• I am not interested in any fetish scenes involving my job, particularly those involving abuse of power. Sorry. That's really not my jam.
  
• I'm into enthusiastic consent. I'm not into anything that isn't that.
  
• I'm interested in meeting you in person, for real. Please be in NW Washington or the Lower Mainland (or willing to travel here).
  

Still with me? I'm a 49yo college professor in the Lower Mainland (near Delta). I have an average body, 5'7, 145, brown hair, blue eyes, and a top. I relate pretty well to students, so if you're looking to meet someone older who understands you, I might be that guy! If you're a twink, I'm especially into that. I'm willing to meet you where you are, and with whatever level of discretion makes you comfortable.