The reason I came on Reddit, was to have a sexual advice outlet regarding my kinks. As they live outside of social norms, yet are incredibly common, and have their own niche. I love father/son cest fantasy. The idea of a father and son crossing that line (of age and concent of course) and becoming the ultimate love, has had an edge that for me only grows deeper with time, with all the many aspects and nuance to it.

The niche I suppose and kink for me is the level of intimacy and unconditional love. It builds an instant connection even with strangers embracing a certain level of intimacy. I'm not into dad son power play between feminised and overly masculine arcytypes of these roles, or over developed age paly or dominant dad. I actually find that people seem harder to digest the idea of a son and dad from 18 plus just deciding of sound mind to become family and lovers in one, rarely seen in porn, maybe because my kink leans into the erotica more then the pornographing. I find this immersive play deeply stimulating, and equally conversations regarding the fantasy and cest as a fantasy topic no matter how theoretical and intellicual equally stimulating and fulfilling. Perhaps that makes me Sapiosexuality- it's attractive to me people who can articulate their kinks from a conscious spiritual relationship with the body and mind.

In gay culture dad / son porn is beyond present, but it's very rare where it dips into the father son lover territory. Fantasy Vs reality I have a very healthy relationship with, I have expressed as I have journeied through these kinks here on Reddit the aspects of the kink, my kink I suppose that fanciated and intruiged. I have indulged real mastabatory fantasies about my dad, these have become aspects to my kink I Own and Indulge. It's safe practise , and hasn't caused any backlash it's a fantasy version of my own dad, sometimes my bro but it has echoed to me the depths of gay cest that truly turn me on. However as they always say "you were better in my head" and I have no true ambition to live with these fantasies with the real deal, that's pretty much impossible with the given circumstances lol However the next best thing is incredibly intruiging.

In my single years in my early twenties, I look back with less active awereness of my kinks I have now, when chatting to dad's/bears/older men on scruff etc the chat was still very much Dad/son but I wasn't ready to go beyond chatting. Unawere really of how deep it ran for me, the chat alone was so stimulating. However I can trave my attraction to older fatherly m, and dad feet right back , another clue my kinks were nature not nuture. One American couple of dads on scruff wanted to meet in UK, wanted to hang out/ breed me and completely make me their son. I look back with regret of not meeting them sometimes, as I believe this would of been incredibly fulfilling as they understood the equal parts of father and lover. And saw me as a reflection of their love as a couple over time, like a real son. I remember some of the chat overwhelming me, I look back at 35, and it was actually right at the core of a father son relationship I'd love to experience.

My partner 41 and I 35 have the most beautiful, powerful, real, transparent relationship, he is my soul mate, I still struggle with the idea of sexual experience outside of our monogamy. Some sort of inbuilt traditional value perhaps. He is a voyer and hayd embraced my incest kink and adopted both dad and son roles when the vibe is right, I worry sometimes about leaning into it too much for my own pleasure, as he is v open, giving lover, and has expressed interest in seeing me live my foot fetish and dad son fantasies. I'm yet to jump on this, I'm not a voyer so feel almost selfish in allowing him to do this for me, and have no desire to see him with another lover (I see the double standards in this) and worry if it opens up new energies into our relationship. Or will it simply give me an outlet to look back and have less regret on. At 35 my son days are slim hahaha. Or are they? No clear answer but it's nice having an open dialogue here.

If you made it this far on what is considered a long Reddit, your already my kind of intellect.

Reddit has its problems- the amount of cest content be it fantasy or reality is hard to discern, I find anything claimbing to be true and plays out as a toxic form of the kink (age/force/lacking in love) - all be it subjective to the player a true turn off. Reading what could be a real account of the rarest form of fam love between concenting men especially maybe over a long period seems as I get older the real fantasy. But I am facinated by gay relationships that 80/90 percent of the time live as dad son, or dad's that seek a son or sons who seek a dad and I mean beyond the bedroom, that truly norishong bond , or even outside of. Relationship in fleeting moments, I love the idea of role playing a real dad's older son, use his name, where his clothes, giving a dad that outlet, does this happen? Or is it Reddit fantasy, yes the non sexuale aspects of dad son and bros always has a sexual component to it, but is it just me who finds they could happily just experience the lens of dad son sex for most of not all of their sexual outlet?

Yes of course it's based on the connection, connection is everything! Father son for me is about an equal love, both guide, teach, Norish each other, take normal family moments through a kink lens, cuddles, body contact, bathing, after day chats, musk, dad son feet play. Dad supporting and seeing the physical side as an extension of his perentle love.

I could go on, I'm only interested if their are like minded men out there who this reads to and understand, maybe as a form of further validation or simple intruige into the kink further.

Have a great day

Warm regards x