Father son cest fantasy : seeking advice.

I'm 35 partnered gay m UK, truly content with my kinks, sexuality and outlook on life. Father son dynamics have become a huge part of how I wish to experience sex. Over the years I've gained more and more fascination & articulation and confidence I guess in why I love the freedom and liberation of my interpretation of Father son cest dynamics, I'm not hear to judge or be judged however I find the kink/fantasy or cest based conversation can be laden with alot of toxicity that takes away something for me.

For me this kink is best described as the ultimate love, for me all sex especially this fantasy is based on of age concent. A son and dad equally choosing each other to fall in love with, yes this dynamic has far more potency for me when the role is bio dad not step, a histrionic love that is based on trust and respect and entering a physical rhelm. It's not about power play or roughdom sub afeminate play outs like you see in most porn. I find it the ultimate masculine experience.

A Dad/Son consensual romantic bond based on being so proud of each other physically, mentally and socially. The only element where that differs from 'real' life is the physical pride, as obviously is has spilled over form pride into desire, but it includes all the usual aspects father son healthy bonding, which I just find incredibly erotic the more immensely immersive, and detail orientated it is.

In my own mastabatory journey it is now my go to, fantasies of my own father sometimes brother give a different kind of pleasure. Something I feel if he was around I would like to be brave enough to discover, or is that just deep fantasy over reality of that. It's hard to know if what you read here is real and alot of it seems to extreme. I'm fascinated in where this kink comes from is it genes, is it environment, is it porn. Drawn to fatherly figures but more importantly the aspect of man that can allow himself to be equal parts strong, weak, guide, teach and be teached by his family.

I know dad/son culture is quite common now, but I'm here for only intellectual/ theoretical aspects of this kink in conversation with like open minded, I'm not looking for a dad or son, just to share and seek experience in others findings, I find verbal conversations about it stimulating and fulfilling. Dad couples that seek sons, sons that want a real dad, brothers that have experienced intimacy or the rare few that have known that bond with their dad, public father son non bio relationships I would like to hear about. Boyfriends that live most part as dad son or at least have that over arking the overall impression of their relationship. My partner knows all about this aspect of my sexuality and has embraced it with love, trust and open mindness and kindness which has strengthened our sexual bond, but I also don't want it to be the only thing that I desire in bed, all though I fear a dad son sex Lens is how I view most sexual moments for my own pleasure so I am seeking balance advice too. I would have regrets if I didn't pursue advice on what feels like a natural part to my sexuality.

I have a really balanced attitude and a healthy imagination. I feel like that dad/ daughter is instinctive in man and ingrained in a lot of mainstream porn, mumson too for younger lads. But dad son seems lacking in its depictions of love, maybe that's just porn. That older tenderness, that nurturing fatherly aspect, looking after what is closest to them. tenderness. The nuance and layer in erotica of this kink is immersive and is extreme in its satisfaction

I guess that's who it's become something very deep to my sexuality.

I'm happy to hear from others who understand what I'm saying in its energy but may prefer a different fam figure etc

But the focuss is dad son.

Thanks for reading. I know this was long for Reddit.

Warm regards