Quick description and what are my interest before start my story:

Latin, young, slim, caucasian, brown eyes, black hair, 6’1”, 155 lbs, team bottom

Looking for: LTR, into mature men not into grandpas whose can’t even walk. Good hygiene, no stinky breath, no bad odor!

I get bored of lame replies I prefer you don’t say anything back tbh. Why you reach me out?

Why you full-fill my messages if you don’t even make an effort? I will leave the chat if it’s the case so if I don’t reply, you know why.

Oh and I don’t want to be an ornament in your snapchat or social media. I don’t want to receive every day a snap because you’re increasing your streak. I have a lot of ornaments already, I don’t want anymore. Thanks!

~~~And please understand I am not looking for penpals, or people who say “vent with me” I can call crisis emergency and do the same thing and it’s useless. I am not interested in making a friendship thru a phone, is not my goal here (talk with someone thru a phone over months).

I would like to start the convo knowing: your age/where are you located/what you’re looking for.

Hi stranger! I will tell you my story and at the end you probably gonna end thinking like me “life’s so ironic”.

I used to live in latin america, the reason I left my country are pretty obvious and here you go an explanation:

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1. I am not a trump supporter, I’m just using his speech because it’s accurate and people ask me “why you left your country” like they don’t even read news, so that’s the reason why I left my country.
2. I am not a politic person, to be honest. I don’t even care.

So when I used to be stuck in my country I got a lot of compliments about people saying “you pretty, wish you could be here, wish you could be in USA. Blah… blah… blah.”

I like foreigners since I am a kid… if I don’t remember bad. That’s the reason I tend to date people different from my continent… I don’t even like latin people, hell nah.

I am into people from america (USA), people from europe, and different continents. Because I just like things different to my culture. I feel attracted to new things, new languages.

So I felt very unlucky when I was stuck in my country and I concluded the problem was me being stuck in there.

So I finished my studies and got my degree and I did everything possible to come to the U.S. and I did it. I said, nice… so now I can find a person to be with and maybe would be easy because you know I know what I want and I am serious about finding a person for a LTR.

Here’s the funniest thing in the story: I started to date with guys, most of them pretty… they were attracted to me as well so it was kind of some connection until they started to ask about my personal life and I started to explain I came to the U.S. recently and I don’t have home/car/job because I am just starting my life in a new country where I don’t even have one soul I have met before. No family, no friends, nothing.

After a date, some men started to talk with me and my situation… and this is what I got from them:

“How can I take serious a person that it doesn’t have anything”, “you’re just looking for a chance in life”, “you’re a broken mf” (I felt attacked but people here’s rude so I prefer shut down myself), or after knowing that part of me… it’s like they’re not interested anymore or whatever. So I don’t wanna chase any man, it’s not my style and I am not that ugly, I just want something genuine. And somebody whose can understand I am under a process time that it won’t last forever, because I have been looking for jobs but all of them: no spots/SSN required. Isn’t my fault every process in this country takes an eternity, but well that’s not all!

I have met guys whose say they want a relationship and date someone and such but it’s like they only want a hookup and that’s all! I think I have more value than just a night and then being throw to the garbage.

Sometimes people it’s like “you don’t know what the hell do you want, you don’t know the power of your statement to hurt someone that is not in the same position like you”, “you don’t even have empathy for others being thru process”.

I won’t blame you, it’s something we develop during our growth. Is not something gonna happen overnight!

So if you’re in the process to meet someone, just don’t be a dick because you don’t know all the background and what have been with that person. ASK FIRST instead judging someone. There are people trying so hard but without tools to keep moving and carrying depression because they’re completely alone in a foreigner country.

Anyway, now that I am here in the U.S. I can see the problem wasn’t being stuck there! Pretty clear.

Men want time to meet someone in person and “see what can happen” but they don’t need time to hookup with someone overnight. Where’s the logic.

Friendly reminder: 'If you really want to do something, you'll find a way. If you don't, you'll find an excuse.' —Jim Rohn.

Bye, bye! ;)