Hey guys, I have a question for you but I have to explain: so I was raised in a catholic house, catholic school my whole life, got married to a woman early and have no regrets. The only thing is that I’ve been a closeted bi sexual for the last five years. I told my wife and she is awesome! She told me to go out to explore.

I have been on Grindr, tinder, ok Cupid etc. What would you guys recommend as it seems people only want to collect pictures and waste my time. I live in Tampa which has a great gay scene but I really don’t like bars / clubbing. I am looking for a long term fwb situation where I can feel safe and comfortable, and the internet seems a bit aggressive haha. I am 35, attractive, and very serious!!