PLEASE DO NOT BASH OR JUDGE ME FOR THIS POST, I JUST NEED TO BE HONEST ABOUT MY SEXUAL LIMITS, ENOUGH PEOPLE BASH ME & CALL ME SELFISH FOR THEM, SO I DON'T NEED TO HEAR OR READ ANY MORE COMMENTS CALLING ME SELFISH, PLEASE!

I am a Gay Man with Autism & I would DEFINATELY consider myself a Side however, I just don't feel too comfortable using that term to describe me really... Really, the only thing I'm into sexually is Receiving Oral Sex (having my Penis Sucked by Another Man).

I feel like if I just told people that I am a Side that they would automatically assume that I like both giving & receiving Oral Sex, but I ONLY like Recieving Oral Sex.

I REALLY DO NOT LIKE SUCKING PENIS AT ALL! THAT IS A HARD LIMIT FOR ME! & I NEVER LIKED DOING IT! PLEASE DO NOT ASK WHY... I feel like everyone's sexual limits should be respected ⛤ There's nothing selfish about that ⛤

BUT: What term can a guy like me use to describe myself? I guess I could call myself a Top/Side or a Penis-Suckie & the guy sucking me could be the Bottom/Side or a Penis-Sucker but I was wondering if a term like this already exist.

I know about the terms Pillow Princes but it doesn't seem like that one is very well known. But what terms do you all think?

ALSO: Getting back to me only like having my Penis sucked, there's nothing selfish about it. There actually are some men who don't like having their penis stimulated for many different reasons. I once talked to a guy online who told me that he didn't like having his penis sucked & he didn't even masturbate because he always felt guilty/bad after he had an Orgasm so he just loved doing the sucking himself instead. I also talked to another man online once who never wanted to get off during sex & never even masturbated because he liked being horny all the time because it made him feel energetic & powerful (his words..) Unfortantely I wasn't able to actually meet this men due to circumstances & distance, BUT PLEASE HOPE THAT I END UP WITH A MAN LIKE THAT ONE DAY SOON ⛤ MAY SEEM FAR-FETCHED BUT ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE! ⛤ SO MOTE IT BE ⛤

But let me repeat my main question of this post again:

• What term can a guy like me use to describe myself? I guess I could call myself a Top/Side or a Penis-Suckie & the guy sucking me could be the Bottom/Side or a Penis-Sucker but I was wondering if a term like this already exist?...