I met a guy on grindr. Have in my profile not into anal strictly a side. I explicitly state Im looking to trade blowjobs, jerk together but NO BUTT PLAY. I chatted with this guy for a 3 months. Hes a bigger guy super sweet and we had a lot in common. We explicitly talk about things we want to try together. We getting into graphic detail about how we're going to suck each other's cock and play together and cum. Mind you this is over 3 months and I can't even count how many times I explained how I am not into butt play and he tells me he "gets it". So I think we're on the same page.

Fast forward to this past weekend. Schedules a line and we're able to meet up Saturday night. We go out to dinner together have a few drinks watch some football. Really nice date actually. We come back to my place things start getting a little hot and heavy. I am giving him a blowjob and he really seems to be enjoying it. While I'm doing this what comes out of his mouth but and I quote " how do you want Daddy to fuck you?" I stop what I'm doing and I explain that I told him many times I don't fuck. He starts getting all shitty and bent out of shape. Well why the fuck did you meet up with me in the first place. Again this was told to him I even pull up the messages and show him and he gives me some bull about how he thought I was joking. Just totally ruins the moment. I ended up just asking him to leave. As he was being really stupid. Has anyone else had anything like this happen Am I wrong for saying what I said and stopping? I just don't get it I thought we were on the same page