I’m in it for the Cuddles!

This is kind of at the intersection of AGR and Gay Sides, but I’m curious to know if anyone has ever gotten together for platonic or semi-platonic cuddles?

Due to complications from surgery several years ago, any sex requiring an erection is complicated. Not impossible, just complicated and requires some extra preparation.

Honestly, my favorite part of being with a younger/smaller partner is the snuggles. When my partner is smaller than me, I like to be the big spoon. If they’re much smaller than me, I like when they sit in my lap. The goal is to wrap myself around my partner and sweetly cuddle and caress them. It’s nice to have a quiet conversation while spooning, which would include reminding them that they are beautiful and perfect exactly as they are, and safe in my arms. Hopefully, we can make out tenderly as well.

Naturally, I wouldn’t want them to be frustrated, so if they become aroused and desire release, I love being oral and using my hands and body. I love being frotted against. If the energy never gets to that point, I am also ok.

Are there any Younger/smaller out there who are attracted to an older, big strong yet cuddly bear, but find it a stretch to be sexual with them, and would rather be cuddled instead?

Would love to hear your comments if you think that kind of contrast is hot!

Thanks!