Eh, this is a bit of a dumb question but this came into my head yesterday after having a session with my dildo.

I'm a virgin but since I remember I've always played with my butt, and as time went on I started shoving bigger and better things up there to get off.

Last year I bought my very first sex toy and it's pretty big, maybe a bit too big for a beginner.

It's an 8 inch dildo with a 5 inch circumference. When I first started using it, I really struggled and it took me some time with lube to finally be able to use it without any discomfort.

Fast forward a year and I can pop myself on and off my dildo with little to no effort. I typically use my dildo a couple times a week and it's really stretched me out! My butt's never been more receptive.

The past few months though I've been thinking of buying an even bigger dildo, at least one that's much more girthy. The length isn't too much of an issue but sometimes I just feel like not enough of it is pressing against my more sensitive bits.

There's been a few times where I've been bouncing up and down on my dildo, taking the full length, and hardly feeling a thing. It depends on the position I'm in though and I have to really manoeuvre myself around or jackhammer myself pretty hard for it to begin feeling good.

I'm a little worried that I've ruined my butthole though. I still feel pretty tight without lube but with lube it's a breeze (so long as I'm not cold!) to penetrate myself, either with my fingers or my dildo. Inside though I feel really stretched out and the shape of my bowels has definitely changed over the past year.

The question is, when it comes to penetrative sex with another guy, will I feel much of anything if they're smaller than my dildo? I know sex is a lot different than using a dildo but I'm a little concerned that my butt's too stretched out to feel much from a real penis.

I know it must be a lot different with a real person and I sometimes wish that I had the power of someone else's hips behind me when I get too tired riding my dildo, but I dunno if I've sorta ruined it for myself.