I didn't used to be super quick, but I didn't last particularly long either. Not long after me and now husband met when we were 23 and 19, we were messing around and within around 2 minutes of me getting inside him I blew my load. This didn't come as a huge surprise for me but it was the first time it had happened with him. At first he was like 'wow, that was so hot that I made you cum so quick' but that quickly turned into him basically laughing at the lack of endurance I had shown. I wasn't sure which turned me on more, the cumming quick or the humiliation side of it - I soon decided both.

After a couple years together and quite a few more occasions of me blowing super early we decided that we would make it a part of our sex lives, as he loved being able to last so much longer and I loved being kind of inferior. Luckily we're both verse so we often took it in turns to top. We decided it would be hot if I couldn't last when I topped and had to finish him off with toys and came handsfree when I bottomed (which i was already doing semi-regularly anyway).

We didn't really do a lot of research, but because he knew what got me off we came up with a plan to aim for me basically barely being able to top. Now I can say that now I genuinly struggle to last more than a few pumps when I top, last around 30 seconds on a good day from oral, and tend to cum hansfree in a few minutes when I bottom. There are even quite a few times, as I've shared here before, that I don't even manage to get my pants and underwear down in time. We have also recently started getting into cuckholding which is also hot as hell. Here is the process we followed, which was before hubby started working away from home so much.

The first thing we did was put a ban on me topping or receiving oral so that I could train to cum quickly just through hand stuff first, knowing that the rest would always have me finished quicker anyway. For a while when we would be in bed we would set a 2 minute timer as he started to jerk me off and if I wasnt done in that time, I didn't get to finish. He'd jerk me off super quick with lube which meant I rarely did get to the 2 minute mark anyway. After that we reduced it to 1 minute. I'd say it took around a month for me to be easily under the 1 minute mark. Once I was, we got rid of the lube so that my head didn't get involved, meaning it would become super sensitive. At the same time, whenever I bottomed he would keep me from touching myself, meaning that I either came handsfree or not at all.

When I was regularly cumming within 30 seconds to a minute he would then start me off by hand, then quickly switch to oral. If I hadn't finished within around 30 seconds from oral he would stop and that would be it. Over time he would reduce the time 'pre-oral' but still have the same 'cum soon or don't cum at all' rule. Again, once my time was down and I couldn't last we stepped it up and I was allowed to top again.

By the time I topped again it had been around 2 months and boy was I excited. We started fooling around on the couch and he turned to me and said that he wanted to see how long I would last inside him now, seeing as I couldn't even last 30 seconds from head. I ran to the bedroom and got the lube and a condom. 'No condom' he said 'you'll be even quicker bare'. Safe to say I was sold. I tentatively lubed myself up which in itself had me writhing with pleasure then he shuffled to the front of the couch and I held his legs in the air whilst he grabbed his phone, setting a 30 second timer and holding his finger above the start button. As I rested my rock hard cock right at the edge of his hole he counted down from three. On zero I pushed inside and he started the timer. I pushed all the way in in one stroke (I'm not huge) but as soon as the whole of my shaft was in I blew my load right away - there was still more than 25 seconds remaining on the timer. As I grunted and shot my load he just grinned at me as we both knew that the last few months had been worth the effort.

Now I can barely remember the times that I lasted more than a few humps when I top, and I absolutely love it.