Idk what to do, I moved way to fast with what I thought was a perfect guy for both of us who ended up being crazy and so not right for myself. My problem is he treats my husband far different than he treats me, i think part of this is because my husband is naive and goes along with what ever he says and takes what he says as true. What I’ve found is this dude is extremely untrustworthy, fights with me constantly and just says what I wanna hear. I made the stupid decision to let him move in while I was infatuated and now I don’t know how to get out of this situation without upsetting everyone. It’s gotten to the point where I feel I’m such a failure and I’m the problem in our relationship to where I wanna harm myself instead of confront the problem. Has anyone been in a similar situation?

To anyone who’s gonna comment to not harm myself, please don’t worry I’m not at that point, I’m just having the thoughts which has never happened before but I’m strong enough to not give in (yet)