Hi all,

I've recently found myself in an accidental Triad situation and looking for any tips or advice folks would care to share, resources recommendations (YouTube channels, books, podcasts, etc. )

Summary of the 'accident',

I began talking to guy 1 on Grindr, his profile stated he was in a open relationship, looking for a bf to go on dates with, Conversations with guy 1 were great, we were trying to figure out a time to meet/go on our first date.

In the meantime a FWB of mine tried to organize a threesome, ultimately fell through and didn't happen but through the course of that me and guy 2 started talking and hit it off right away in a very deep, not just let's have sex, kind of way.

A week passes, I have a coffee date with guy 1 on Thur before work and had a date lined up with guy 2 Friday night. Friday morning though through comments made by guy 1 I realize I'm actually messaging husbands.

I immediately come clean and we are all informed/on the same page of what is going on and trying to figure out what it means with general consensus we want to keep moving forward with stuff.

There is a little bit of jealousy/possessiveness at the moment with guy 2 wanting me semi to himself because he's only talking to me while guy 1 has had several guys he's been on dates with.

So that's where I'm at, again, if folks have resources they would recommend or specific advice or comments on my situation would greatly appreciate any assistance!