So, I've been interested in being Poly for a few years now. I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for about 7 months now and I'm not SEXUALLY attracted to him. He knows this and we're okay with it. We still love eachother deeply and romantically. However, I still have sexual desires, just not with him.

He has at least TALKED about the idea of poly with me before, but I know he doesn't feel comfortable with it because his biggest fear is jealousy and me falling more in love with someone else.

He seemed like he was toying with the idea the other day when we discussed it, but I know he was only thinking of it to make me happy, and I don't want that I want it to be mutual. Ideally, I crave to have two boyfriends whom love me equally and I love them equally, but one I am sexual with and the other I am not.

The only other thing I would want is for them to not be sexual together, just with me.

I dont know how it would/could work, but I definitely want it.

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I know advice would be either "just talk to him more" or "break up with him" but IDK I just want more thoughts/opinions, or at least maybe someone to talk to and befriend in case he does become open and we can go from there.